Don't settle for great sex: how your desires can not only make your day but change your life.Veteran psychotherapist Stanley Siegel sets out to forever change the way we feel about sex -- as well as the way we have it. Instead of thinking of sex as a few moments of pleasure, Stanley Siegel shows that sex is a window into our true selves, and that it can be life changing. Readers will learn how to discover their true sexual desires -- where they come from and what they mean -- and then use those insights to create a meaningful, satisfying, and even healing sexual life. .